Why life is so hard and unfair?

              

Why life is so hard to live? Well you’re not the only one questioning this! Almost every person on earth has asked himself this question at some point. This question arises for several of reasons, for example: Some people may find life hard because they are struggling with a mental illness, are unemployed, are divorced or they have no friends etc. Life can also be hard because of the circumstance of your birth or because of the people around you. For example, if you were born into a family that is poor, you may find life difficult to live. If you live in a city with a high crime rate, it’ll be difficult for you to live there.

Everyone has reasons for calling life as difficult, and no one is ever completely satisfied with his or her life. Yes, even millionaires and billionaires are included. Even if you are wealthy, life can still be difficult for you. This is just the nature of the world, and those who don’t get used to it end up suffering and tormenting themselves; however, once you understand the reality of what life truly is, you’ll be able to cope with any difficulty in life easily and without much suffering.

3 Common situations that make life difficult

Search of career
When you realize that it’s finally time to get out of your comfort zone and search for your future career, life can seem intimidating; after all, who wants to do something they don’t enjoy? But we’d have to do it for the sake of our future, this makes joyful life difficult for teenagers at first. They no longer have the freedom to choose how they spend their time, but thankfully, there are alternatives now. People with independent personalities typically try to earn money online while remaining in their comfort zone.

Breakups
Breaking up with someone you loved, someone you had many future dreams with, can make your life difficult to live because you won’t be able to get him/her out of your head no matter how hard you try. We humans, most of the time, get everything we wish for but we always run for something that was taken away from us because that’s just how we are. So, never be in a hurry to make decisions unless the other person does it; trust me, you won’t be sorry if the decision was not made by you, but if you make the choice, you’ll be sorry because you accepted responsibility.

Mistakes and Failure
Failing in life is quite common, but the society, most of the time, does not forgive the failure even though they themselves have been in such situations, but it’s considered a law or something to cuss the failure and they don’t see how difficult it is for the failure, most of the time failures fail because of their own mistakes, those type of failures do not get much effected by the society, but there is another group of failures who work tirelessly to achieve success with no one witnessing their efforts; however, when they fail to succeed, everyone comes out to mock them.

How to deal with difficult situations in life?

The first thing you must do is accept the reality; running from it will only make your life more worse. So, what can you do while remaining in a difficult situation? Consider it like a game, each level is harder than the previous one, so don’t be frustrated because it’s not that hard, it’s not that difficult in comparison to future hardships, you’re not at your final level yet. Take precautions. Determine what you can change in order to achieve success.

Life is a jumbled puzzle that just needs to be reassembled, success is already hidden in your failures.

-Jerry Hai

Nothing is difficult to achieve in this world. If your goal is to live a life free of failures, then concentrate more on that aspect and try to find out possibilities. Even if only 1% of the possibility is left, that’s all you need to turn that possibility into reality, and that’s exactly how possibilities work. Most of the leading-successful people are rare because they go for the rare possibilities to choose in life and of course it’s not easy but for those who don’t have the passion to do it, For example, being a doctor, scientist, or engineer is difficult for many people; however, there are many doctors, engineers, and scientists out there; they are also humans; what motivates them to do what you cannot? Simply put, it’s the passion that motivates them.

Conclusion

Life can be difficult and full of failures but possibility of success in it is more than failures, even if there’s a little possibility left, that’s all you need to turn that possibility into success.